Be Limitless · Meet Andrew
I know what it feels like to chase success and still wonder why it isn't enough.
I'm Andrew Meyer, Co Founder and Chief Facilitator of Be Limitless. Before I began facilitating transformational experiences, I had to face some uncomfortable truths about my own life.
I studied Mechanical Engineering and went on to build a successful career in telecommunications, managing major GSM infrastructure projects across Africa.
From the outside, I had what most people would call a good life. A senior position. Money. Opportunities. The lifestyle. The things I thought would make me happy.
But inside, I was a mess.
My mind was a war zone of self doubt, restlessness and an endless stream of questions. I was doing all the things I believed I was supposed to do, yet I felt increasingly disconnected from myself.
So I tried the obvious solution.
More money. More experiences. More of everything.
Surely, if I just achieved a little more, bought a little more or found the next exciting thing, I would finally feel satisfied.
Except I didn't.
What was feeding my bank account wasn't feeding my happiness.
I felt trapped in a life that looked successful to everyone else but didn't feel like my own. I was afraid to admit how unhappy I was because I thought I was the only one who felt this way.
I could function. I could achieve. I could look confident. But I wasn't being honest with myself.
I felt like a successful imposter, living a life that looked right on the outside while feeling increasingly wrong on the inside.
Eventually, pretending everything was fine became harder than facing the truth.
Something had to change.
The turning point
Sometimes the experience that changes your life is the one you nearly talked yourself out of attending.
The experience that changed everything
How did I begin to change my life?
A friend suggested a personal development workshop.
I laughed at first, thinking it was a load of hippie bullshit.
But deep down, something told me to give it a shot.
That workshop, The Harlequin Experience, changed everything.
It opened my eyes to new possibilities. For the first time, I felt like I had permission to be myself.
It connected my brain to my heart, and I felt it beating again.
I finally felt amazing in my own skin. I finally felt alive.
That experience lit a fire in my gut.
That spark ignited a hunger for knowledge.
I started studying performance coaching, psychology, CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy), and more than 27 other approaches to human development.
I began to understand myself differently, and that understanding started changing how I approached my life, my career and my future.
My career took off like a rocket. My income doubled in a year and a half, and I made life changing investments.
Turns out, when you know how your mind works, you can make it work for yourself. Who knew?
But the biggest change was still to come.
At the old age of 28, I left corporate life and went on a global vision quest, devouring knowledge, challenging my own mental barriers and building myself into the man I wanted to become.
I wasn't simply walking away from a career. The Harlequin Experience had sparked something in me, and I wanted to discover how far that journey could take me. I was choosing to explore what life could look like when I stopped living according to expectations and started making more conscious choices for myself.
Preserving the work
The Harlequin Experience has been around since 1989, changing lives long before Be Limitless came into existence.
I know firsthand what that experience can mean because I attended it before I left the corporate world. It helped set in motion the journey that would reshape my life.
After leaving corporate life, I continued exploring, learning and challenging myself. Eventually, I was ready to share what I had learned and support others on their own journeys.
Then I discovered that the Harlequin Experience might come to an end when its founder retired.
This was the experience that had made such a profound difference in my life. I had seen, time and time again, how it had transformed the lives of so many people. I couldn't stand by and watch something with such a powerful history simply disappear.
I had more than enough time on my hands. I no longer had a boss or an eight to five job, and I was already volunteering my time to support Harlequin.
I made it my mission to preserve the work.
Together with Zania, I acquired the rights to the programme, established Be Limitless, and took over running The Harlequin Experience full time.
What began as a personal turning point became a commitment to ensuring that the Harlequin Experience could continue reaching people who might be searching for the same answers I once needed.
Over the years, I have worked with thousands of people through workshops, coaching and transformational experiences. I've seen people question beliefs they had carried for years, recognise patterns that had been running their lives without their awareness, and begin approaching themselves, their relationships and their choices differently.
I'm still here, fuelled by the tears of joy I witness when people wake up and realise what they're truly capable of.
This isn't a job for me. It's a calling.
The work today
My background in engineering taught me to look for systems, patterns and the relationships between things. My personal journey taught me that human beings are far more complex than a problem to be solved.
My work brings those perspectives together.
I'm interested in what drives our behaviour, why certain patterns persist even when we want to change, and how greater awareness can create the possibility of different choices.
At Be Limitless, the aim isn't to give you a personality to copy or a set of rules to follow.
It's to create an environment where you can examine your own thinking, challenge the assumptions you've taken for granted and explore what might be possible beyond your familiar ways of responding.
This work asks for honesty. It asks for participation. At times, it asks you to get uncomfortable.
Because understanding something intellectually and experiencing a genuine shift in how you relate to yourself are not the same thing.
I can share what I've learned. I can challenge you, ask questions and create opportunities for you to see things differently.
But your life is yours to live, and your choices remain yours to make.
A personal note
I still have difficult days. I still encounter challenges. I still have moments when old habits or familiar ways of thinking try to make themselves heard.
The difference is that I've learned to recognise them, understand what's happening and respond more consciously.
I'm also, according to my wife, one of those annoyingly happy people.
Not because everything always goes my way, but because I no longer believe my happiness has to depend on everything going my way.
That is a very different way to live, and it's one of the reasons I care so deeply about this work.
I know what it costs to spend years chasing a version of success that leaves you feeling empty. I know how easy it is to become so accustomed to your own patterns that you stop questioning them.
And I know you don't have to wait until everything falls apart before you start asking better questions.
Your life is yours to shape
You might be doing well professionally but struggling in your relationships.
You might be successful by everyone else's standards but privately feel that something is missing.
You might know exactly what you want to change but find yourself repeating the same behaviours, having the same arguments or making the same promises to yourself.
Or perhaps you simply sense that there's more available to you than the life you're currently experiencing.
You don't need to be broken to begin exploring. You don't need to have everything figured out.
You do need to be willing to look honestly at yourself. That is where the journey begins.
I can't promise you that one workshop will solve every challenge in your life. What I can offer is an opportunity to explore yourself differently, question familiar patterns and discover what becomes possible when you stop operating entirely on autopilot.
I took that step because I knew I couldn't keep living the way I was living. Today, through Be Limitless, I get to create opportunities for others to take their own steps.
Your next step
If something in my story resonates with you, explore the Harlequin Experience, find out what BreakThrough involves and decide whether this is the right next step for you.